Aside from the painting, Maddie, Emily, and I went to the market with one of the mothers. The market consisted of many different stalls selling fresh vegetables, fruits, and various assortments of grains. The hustle and bustle of the streets was an exquisite site. The interaction between the customer and the vendor was unlike anything I had ever seen before; it seemed a lot more personal and friendly.
After the market, Maddie, Raise, and I helped out in the kitchen. Even through the language barriers, at least for me, I had a fun time. The women have finally opened up a little and are extremely gregarious; always laughing and making others laugh. The work in the kitchen required chopping, washing, or peeling the vegetables. Basically we helped out any which way we could. As much fun as it was, our time in the kitchen did not last very long. Our attention was needed in the dining room.
At one point we were all helping out in the dining room, including Raquel’s husband Sergio. When the painting was coming to its final stages and not as many people were required I snuck away to the nursery to see the little ones for the last time.
The children in the nursery range from newborns to about three years old. All of them are extraordinary and unbelievably adorable. Their innocence touches your heart. With all the chaos of the day, it is easy to forget what these women have been through. The fact of the matter is that at such a young age these women have experienced more harsh times than some of us ever will in our entire lifetime. The women of Casa de Mantay are children themselves. The youngest girl there is thirteen with a 1 ½ year old son. It does not matter where you grow up; at that age it is difficult for anyone to raise a child. The women are stripped of their childhood and forced to grow up faster in order to provide a brighter future for their children.
So on my last day at the casa I finally understood what this experience was about. For me, helping out at Casa de Mantay was an amazing opportunity to give back, an experience of a lifetime and a time to gain innumerable knowledge about another culture. I never realized that I would be the one getting a valuable gift in return.
-Priya